People can have happy secrets. Secrets have all this baggage – and it’s assumed secrets are always bad. They don’t have to be. We shouldn’t be so suspicious, so mistrustful.
I think there’s a basic respect for privacy here and I respect it. And secrecy can be part of someone’s privacy. That’s fine. I think if we were all honest, we’d all admit that we all have secrets that are good secrets. Sensible secrets. Happy secrets.